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10 Text Flirting Tips You Need To Know About

We find ourselves living in a world where the computer & phone rules just about everyone, face-to-face flirting has almost become a thing of the past, people have jobs, friends, and hobbies so we are forced to flirt via Facebook messages and texting. In this post I am going to give you 10 Text Flirting Tips that will help you initiate conversation, get the date arranged, while not coming off like a total creep.

So you’ve managed to get this girls number, you’re already 1/3rd of the way there now you just need to flirt a little bit to create attraction, and then ask her out on a date. But how do you even start to do something like that? Well let me tell you..

  1. Tell her exactly who you are in your initial message

    Nobody likes getting a random text message saying “Hey you, I had a good laugh with you the other week, what have you been doing with yourself since?” if a girl gets this text message she’s going to think who the hell is that? Or maybe she is talking to a couple of different guys, you could be anyone.

    So instead of the above say something like “Hey Kirsty, It’s John from M&S I had a great time with you last week, what have you been doing with yourself since?” your first message sets the tone for the conversation afterwards so if you have something funny to say, maybe in relation to the last time you saw her then it may be worth saying, but if you don’t think you should say it, don’t. Continue Reading

The Truth: Can Men And Women Be Just Friends?

Now we are getting into a subject here that has caused a lot of controversy because women will almost definitely say yes, Men and Women can be just friends. But Men will usually 9/10 times say no, it’s not realistic. And guess who’s right again? Yes it’s Men it is completely going against the grain for Men and Women to be just friends, and sooner or later either the Man or the Woman is going to get feelings for the other person.

The laws of physical attraction just don’t allow for men and women to be just friends, this is something that has only recently come into play as the other 99% of the time humans have been around there is not a single shred of ethnographic evidence to suggest that Men and Women had platonic relationships.

But times have changed and so have social dynamics in which humans interact with each other, we live in a world where Men and Women learn, work, and socialise together so if you want to thrive in this modern world you’d better get good at having platonic relationships with Women. Reduced to the core a friendship is a social exchange, each of you has needs and the trade of needs has to be fair and when the needs of two people are different, someone usually ends up getting hung out to dry.

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Tinder Pickup Lines/Openers And Profile Tips For Men

Today we are talking about Tinder Pickup Lines and Openers, but before we can get to that we need to get you matching with good looking women on Tinder, so we are going to talk about things you should be doing with your pictures and your bio, and things you should definitely not be doing to ensure you match with as many attractive women as possible.

Now as with any dating site or app on the internet today you are going to find women that aren’t so desirable, so don’t just sit there swiping right to every woman you come across, these are real life people and you WILL bump into someone you have right swiped but have no interest in sooner or later and she is going to think you are interested, it’s happened to me and it’s very awkward for everyone involved, so learn by my mistakes and just don’t be that guy.

  • No bathroom selfies

    This is a trend that should have died 17 years ago, but unfortunately has not. Don’t take bathroom selfies, if she finds you attractive she will know what your bathroom looks like eventually. Maybe you’re into rock climbing, or riding downhill mountain bikes, or pottery, make sure your pictures are a good representation of yourself and things you like to do. Continue Reading