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11 Tips To Stop You Looking Super Desperate

The first interactions with a woman that you’re interested in can make or break attraction, these initial interactions more or less set the path for the rest of the journey you will have with her, and to ensure you get it right we’re going to cover 11 tips to stop you looking desperate.

Once you’ve started implementing these new rules into your life I can guarantee that you will have a much better chance out there in the dating world because most guys don’t know what you’re about to learn, providing you do read everything in this post and absorb it. Consider the information below the Ying to your Yang.

  1. Remember to give her space, but not too much space

    There’s a fine line between messaging a girl too much, and not messaging her enough. You need to let her know you’re interested in her, but at the same time if you’re messaging her every day she’s going to feel like you’re way more invested than she is. The exception here is that if she initiates conversation with you first, in that case she is probably into you too and you should just exchange messages as normal.

    I’d also like to mention if you know where the girl lives, or where she works. Don’t decide to show up randomly at either her home or her workplace, it’s going to put her on edge and you’ll be throwing off a kind of stalker vibe, if you want to do this simply ask her “Hey, is it okay if I swing by your place later to say hello?” she will appreciate that a lot more, if she doesn’t want you to show up she will simply make up an excuse. Continue Reading

10 Text Flirting Tips You Need To Know About

We find ourselves living in a world where the computer & phone rules just about everyone, face-to-face flirting has almost become a thing of the past, people have jobs, friends, and hobbies so we are forced to flirt via Facebook messages and texting. In this post I am going to give you 10 Text Flirting Tips that will help you initiate conversation, get the date arranged, while not coming off like a total creep.

So you’ve managed to get this girls number, you’re already 1/3rd of the way there now you just need to flirt a little bit to create attraction, and then ask her out on a date. But how do you even start to do something like that? Well let me tell you..

  1. Tell her exactly who you are in your initial message

    Nobody likes getting a random text message saying “Hey you, I had a good laugh with you the other week, what have you been doing with yourself since?” if a girl gets this text message she’s going to think who the hell is that? Or maybe she is talking to a couple of different guys, you could be anyone.

    So instead of the above say something like “Hey Kirsty, It’s John from M&S I had a great time with you last week, what have you been doing with yourself since?” your first message sets the tone for the conversation afterwards so if you have something funny to say, maybe in relation to the last time you saw her then it may be worth saying, but if you don’t think you should say it, don’t. Continue Reading